
Lucky, lucky us! Something in parenting came easy! Drew has been a binky boy from a few weeks old. He grew a fond attachment to his binky through pain and sorrow. He'd call for his binky in moments of tears and tiredness. I had talked with friends and contemplated just how we were going to part with his dear friend. I had all kinds of ideas. But, August 17th was the last day we saw it. Over the last month or so, Drew began chewing on his binkies which started to create small holes. Granted, we never did graduate him from a baby binky to a toddler binky so they were growing weak from all of the sucking and dishwasher treatments. We noticed that Drew wasn't really liking the holes in his binkies and he wasn't using it much during the day. We were down to 3 binkies and eventually, we were down to 1. When naptime rolled around, we couldn't find it anywhere. So, I told Drew that it was lost. He didn't seem too upset so we continued with our naptime rituals. I laid him down and didn't hear a peep! That night was going to be the real test, but again, when he asked, I told him "It's all gone." He said "All gone?" "Yep, all gone." No protest! Wow! It was that easy! He's asked for it a few times in moments of tears, but I've replaced his object of comfort with a reminder that a love from a stuffed puppy can feel awfully nice. He's been ok with that idea. Today, I told him we need to take a picture of him because now he is a big boy who no longer needs a binky. He said, "Yeah!" So, here he his. Proud as can be, no plug in the mouth, and no need for binky!
